Tag: love
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some relationships are tests, not destinations.
Not every relationship comes into your life to stay. Some come to teach you patience. Some come to teach you boundaries. Some come to show you what you will never accept again. And some come just to test how strong you really are. The hard part is… You don’t know which one it is while…
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I HAD TO ADMIT IT WAS ME.
At some point, the excuses ran out. It wasn’t my background. It wasn’t the timing. It wasn’t the lack of support. It was me. Not in a self-hate way. In a self awareness way. Nobody was coming to save me. I kept waiting for something external to shift. More money. More recognition. More opportunity. But…
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Nobody crowned me i took the throne.
Let’s be real. Nobody woke up one day and believed in me before I did. Nobody handed me a blueprint. Nobody checked in to make sure I was good. And honestly? That used to hurt. But then I realised something dangerous: If nobody’s watching, nobody can stop you. That’s when everything changed. Survival mode isn’t…
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I fired the old version of me.
And promoted myself to CEO. Nobody hands you the CEO title. There’s no welcome email. No office. No corner desk with a view. You decide. For a long time, I was running my life like an unpaid intern busy, overwhelmed, waiting for permission, letting circumstance set the agenda. I showed up, but I wasn’t in…
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You didn’t lose yourself. You dropped the act.
There was a version of you that smiled through everything. The one who kept the peace. Explained themselves too much. Shrank options so nobody felt threatened. Stayed “easy” so they could stay included. People loved that you. Of course they did. That version asked for nothing. The shift people don’t warn you about. At some…
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They laughed first. They watch now.
Let me tell you a story. Not the polished version. Not the “and then everything worked out” version. The real one. There was a phase of your life where you were the joke. When you said you wanted more and people smirked. When you posted and got 12 views. When you talked about your plans…
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Nobody knows what they’re doing (yes even them)
You ever look at someone and think, “Wow. They really have their life together.” Perfect routine. Clear goals. Confident decisions. Moving like they’ve got some secret life manual you never received. Hate to break it to you…they don’t. Nobody wakes up magically knowing the right career move, the perfect relationship decision, or the guaranteed path…
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YOU teach people how to treat you (And most of us taught the wrong lesson)
Nobody sits down and decides: “Yeah I’d love to be underappreciated.” “Please ignore my boundaries.” “I enjoy being the one who always adjusts.” But somehow… that’s the role a lot of people end up in. Not because they’re weak. Because they were trying to be good. Good friend. Good partner. Good worker. Good person. And…
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Not everyone you started with is supposed to come with you.
One of the weirdest parts about leveling up? Its not the work. It’s not the doubt. Its not even the slow process. It’s realizing… Some people can’t come where you’re going. And nobody really prepares you for that part. Growth changes your environment. When you start trying to better your life, small things shift: You…
