Tag: relationships
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some relationships are tests, not destinations.
Not every relationship comes into your life to stay. Some come to teach you patience. Some come to teach you boundaries. Some come to show you what you will never accept again. And some come just to test how strong you really are. The hard part is… You don’t know which one it is while…
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You didn’t lose yourself. You dropped the act.
There was a version of you that smiled through everything. The one who kept the peace. Explained themselves too much. Shrank options so nobody felt threatened. Stayed “easy” so they could stay included. People loved that you. Of course they did. That version asked for nothing. The shift people don’t warn you about. At some…
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YOU teach people how to treat you (And most of us taught the wrong lesson)
Nobody sits down and decides: “Yeah I’d love to be underappreciated.” “Please ignore my boundaries.” “I enjoy being the one who always adjusts.” But somehow… that’s the role a lot of people end up in. Not because they’re weak. Because they were trying to be good. Good friend. Good partner. Good worker. Good person. And…
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Not everyone you started with is supposed to come with you.
One of the weirdest parts about leveling up? Its not the work. It’s not the doubt. Its not even the slow process. It’s realizing… Some people can’t come where you’re going. And nobody really prepares you for that part. Growth changes your environment. When you start trying to better your life, small things shift: You…
